Men
May 20th, 2007
I’ve been chewing on some deep thoughts lately - well, since RR asked me what my ideal guy is.
I simply replied: “Someone who wouldn’t need me..”
It’s like Julia Roberts line in the movie Closer when Clive Owen asked her why she’s having an affair with Jude ‘Hottie-But-Reportedly-Has-A-Small-Wang’ Law.
“Do you love him?” Owen confronts his wife.
“Yes..” Roberts replies.
“Why?”
“Because he doesn’t need me,” she said with conviction.
What exactly did I mean when I said I want someone who wouldn’t need me?
I want him to want me. Yes. But, not depend on me… Like the Mark Darcy type from Bridget Jones’ Diary. Oh,Colin Firth is just too damn beautiful (though somewhat balding and wrinkly), and he definitely epitomizes my ideal man.
I want someone who’d be stronger than me.. I’ve no strong feminist sentiments, and I don’t mind my man subduing me (in all the right time and place, of course). I want him to be better than me. I’m really not that great, so it shouldn’t be such a hard task.
JC told me before that none of my guy friends wanted to mess with me because they didn’t want to hurt me. Bullshit. I say, that’s because they’ve got no balls to do so.
Bring forth the Spartans. I want real men.
May 21st, 2007 at 2:20 am
me instill thoughts of reflection in others? that’s damn ludicrous! lol jm. it’s good to know you want a real man and not some halfassed pussy.
don’t be settling for second best and don’t be putting yourself down either haha. everyone’s great in their own way (cue corny ass line), and you’re no different. i’m sure you’ll get your guy. as for me, i dunno if i can say the same. i mean, ge =D
May 21st, 2007 at 2:21 am
me instill thoughts of reflection in others? that’s damn ludicrous! lol jm. it’s good to know you want a real man and not some halfassed pussy.
don’t be settling for second best and don’t be putting yourself down either haha. everyone’s great in their own way (cue corny ass line), and you’re no different. i’m sure you’ll get your guy. as for me, i dunno if i can say the same. i mean, get/found my GIRL, that is >_>…….
May 21st, 2007 at 2:24 am
btw, damn computer and it’s double clicking. it killed my epic tone =D
May 27th, 2007 at 12:54 pm
i think when it comes to being a couple, it’s important that you complement each other. who’s stronger or who’s “better” may not be that important, as long as you got each other’s backs. it may seem unfair for the guy if you’re saying that being dependent on you is a no-no, while you depending on him is okay. it’s kinda good for you too. if that guy just wants you, but doesn’t really ‘need’ you, then everything might just be plain superficial. and he might end up just leaving you and wanting someone else. (lol wow do i sound like a lola? too conservative, no?)